This one was a journey.
In 1986 a Christian marriage book came on the scene that was based on the idea that men have 5 primary needs and women have a separate set of 5 primary needs— and if they aren’t met, your marriage is in serious danger of someone having an affair.
Melissa Hogan joined me to talk about her experience with this book as someone who read it to figure out how to help save her marriage.
We had some strong opinions on this one.
Take a listen to our discussion about Willard Harley’s His Needs, Her Needs.